AVOID THE JERKS AND FIND "THE ONE" WHO'S RIGHT FOR YOU and "An insightful and creative contribution to managing the complexity of choosing a life partner. I heartily recommend it. and " - Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find and "Don't be part of the 'where-was-this-book-when-I-needed-it?' crowd. It's not too late - read it now! and " - Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love and Hot Monogamy Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (previously published in hardcover as How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk ) will help you break destructive dating patterns that have kept you from finding the love you deserve: