Surely you have heard the phrase "Everything comes from childhood" more than once? We remember this when we do not get along well in life, when we understand that some fears, anxieties, self-doubt, inability to build relationships, bad habits can be associated with those difficult events of childhood, when our parents were not up to us, when they scolded and punished us for an accidentally torn jacket, bad grades at school, our curiosity. - So what? - you think. - Will these events of distant childhood always influence my destiny? Perhaps you already have children. And how then is it right to raise children so as not to go too far with excessive guardianship, how to control and regulate their behavior, how to help them become happy if you yourself are not always happy?