Making the Right Choice unravels the entangled relationship between marriage, morality, and the desire for modernity as it plays out in the context of middle-class status concerns and aspirations for upward social mobility within the Sinhala-Buddhist community in urban Sri Lanka. By focusing on individual life-histories spanning three generations, the book illuminates how narratives about a gendered self and narratives about modernity are mutually constituted and intrinsically tied to notions of agency. The book uncovers how and "becoming modern and " in urban Sri Lanka, rather than causing inter-generational conflict, is a collective aspiration realized through the efforts of bringing up educated and independent women capable of making and "right and " choices. The consequence of this collective investment is a feminist conundrum: agency does not denote the right to choose, but the duty to make the and "right and " choice; hence agency is experienced not as a sense of and "freedom, and " but rather as a burden of responsibility.