Absent fathers and households headed by single mothers are frequently blamed for the poor quality of life of African American children This book challenges these assumptions arguing that they are largely an unfair reflection of non working class white American values Hamer places the behaviors of black non custodial fathers in their social political and economic contexts and describes these fatherless families from the perspectives of the families themselves Absent fathers the breakdown of the nuclear family and single mother households are often blamed for the poor quality of life experienced by many African American children Jennifer F Hamer challenges both the imposition of an inappropriate value system and the resulting ineffectual social policies Most of what we know about fathers who do not live with their children is based on interviews with the mothers this book is based on interviews with the fathers themselves How do these fathers perceive their roles and responsibilities This myth shattering book challenges stereotypes of negotiating parenthood within the context of poverty live away status and black American manhood Hamer has collected the voices of eighty eight men who participated in this study by first examining the macro or cultural elements that encompass men s daily lives As part 1 explores these larger forces that define the social world of fathers part 2 looks at what significant others expect of men as fathers and how they behave under these circumstances Part 3 analyzes the particular parenting roles and functions of fathers using narratives of individual men to tell their own stories In this book contemporary black live away fathers talk about their goals walk us through their workplaces allow us to meet their families and children and enable us to view the world of parenthood through their eyes