"Please do not let the light inside your children fade away!" - writes the author of this book Susan Stiffelman, who is called "Dr. Spock of the new generation." But how often do we fight children over every trifle, silently watching that light slowly fade. Meanwhile, our children need us as captains of the ship of their lives. And this is not at all about control, but about how important it is to just stand at the helm. This is the main idea of ​ ​ the book! After reading it, you will learn: how to determine who is in charge in the house - you or the child; how to help a child get up in the morning to school or kindergarten without dramas and tears; how important it is to form attachment between parents and children; how to teach children to cope with negative emotions; how to learn to accept your own child as he is and be proud of him.