The truth is that none of us ever really know what the future holds.The best we can do is to try and make smart decisions, to look life in the eye and not be afraid of living life to the full.That was the attitude that led me and my beautiful wife Sasha to live through a decade-long rollercoaster as we explored and acted on our sexual fantasies. A decade when we experienced the highs and lows of life as we opened up our marriage to a number of men of color. All of them African - not planned that way, that's just how the dice rolled.Playing. Rolling the Dice. Rolling the dice of life. That's about the size of it. Thankfully we had more sixes than ones, more good times than bad. But unless you've got an ability to ride the blows and soak up good times and bad, I wouldn't recommend the life we lived to others. Tread carefully, that would be my motto.But that part of life is over - after nearly ten years and various black partners for Sasha.Like I said, no one knows the future. We certainly didn't know the future when we started out on our journey back in the summer of 2007, a naive late twenties couple who maybe should have known better. An air stewardess and an engineer, together for six plus years, married for five of those. Living our contented lives in Ann Arbor, MI.But thankfully, ten years on Sasha and I still have love and friendship - even if our lives have changed more than we could ever have imagined.This is our story.Jason Sasha