The causes of many relationship problems lie in the plane of communication between mother and child. The ideas about maternal feeling, created thanks to the image of a selfless Eve who suppressed her own needs, are not true today. The Lilith complex (the imposition of a ban on this aspect and the resulting feeling of guilt) is deeply rooted in the cultural sense and will be revived again and again in the relationship between mother and child. Motherhood must be recognized not only as the most important, but also the most difficult task of a person. And while this book describes the suffering that mothers inflict on their children, it is not about the accusation, but about the autopsy and understanding of the relationship, which can have serious consequences both for each individual and for society as a whole.