Our partners are not random people, they are the perfect reflection of our relationship with significant adults. Is it possible to change this scenario? Will it be possible to avoid the development of relationships from unhealthy attachment to violence? The author of the book suggests, through an analysis of your childhood relationships, to determine the type of attachment inherent in you, and, having adjusted your behavior, to get out of the way, leading clearly "in the wrong place." "Why is he missing and not writing?," "He beats me, but my father is good," "jealous ex" - these are no longer your requests to the psychologist. Thanks to the book, you will learn to determine the partner's manipulations, forms of psychological violence, risk zones - and you can enter into a healthy relationship.