Rejection of the dark sexual traditionalism of the past is definitely a positive thing. The sexual revolution allowed us to enjoy a heady mix of erotic freedom and personal autonomy. Right? "No," says Louise Perri. The image of an immoral libertine and the soulless disappointment of liberal feminism in our modern hypersexualized culture do more harm than good. The major winners in the new world of rough sex, sexual relationship culture and the ubiquity of porn are a tiny minority of high-profile men, not women, forced to put up with the excesses of male lust.