The book of the main expert of our time on how to maintain passion and desire in a long-term relationship. Most people in long-term romantic relationships would like their lover to be both their best friend and passionate sexual partner. Alas, there is often a conflict between our need for stability and comfort and a thirst for mystery and uncertainty in erotic relationships. Leading relationship expert Esther Perel explores the connection between long-term relationships and desire and reveals how passion can be reclaimed. Using many examples and studies, Esther proves that exciting, vibrant and romantic sex is possible in a long relationship. This wise, witty and very honest book will change your relationship and revive the desire inherent in the first days of falling in love.