In one folk tale, the protagonist is looking for Living Water for a loved one, while passing a series of tests. He must not forget himself, forget himself and give the most expensive. And only after that he extracts living water. This text is a translation into paper of the author's live lectures and seminars held at different times and in different cities. It reflects the efforts of a large group of people to create meaningful and redundant lives for themselves and their loved ones. As I.N. Kalinauskas, "there are no unworthy people, but there is an unworthy life." This is a book about a life filled with love and meaning, about development and adaptation, about relationships and Dialogue. The book poses questions, the answers to which are invited to find the reader.