In the bright and strong texts of Lily Grad - the professionalism of a psychologist who meets with the non-fictional pain of different people every day. How to get out of destructive life scenarios? How important and necessary is happiness? What to do with lack of love? In these texts there is a lot of sympathy, humor, tenderness, depth and real life - a life where despair already contains shades of hope, where it is not necessary to be unique and where only our, incomparable music sounds. Life often "deserves irony, not tears" - but it is worth loving. This book is a door behind which you can look at yourself in a new way. And you can just exhale and gain strength.