I have found that many people who have taken the Radical Forgiveness course and learned to easily forgive others have great difficulty forgiving themselves. Even recognizing that they themselves created this or that situation for their own healing, such people still continue to reproach themselves. And it became obvious to me that we need another technology, different from the first, albeit directly related to it, - Radical Self-forgiveness. Read this book, go through the process described in it - and accept yourself in your "divinely perfect imperfection."