The psychological aspects of words speak of the possibility of improving life through an informed attitude to one's speech. Psychological study of words allows you to consider what strategies, behavior models, traces of memory are fixed in speech. Conscious perception of speech provides a person with everything necessary for a clear understanding of himself and life, creates conditions for harmonizing his internal states and is a condition for accepting another without claims and expectations, for changing his quality of life in the desired direction. Learning to see my speech from the position of "I understand my speech and realize that now my words create my circumstances and my life" is a formable skill. Speech habits as a reflection of formed thought processes are not always quickly amenable to change. You can learn to consciously use your speech if you have accumulated fatigue from the contradiction between what I know about myself and how I live. Thanks to speech awareness, there is more and more happiness in life.