In his life, a person faces many problems. Many of them are due to the influence of factors of its surrounding reality, independent of humans. In order not only to survive, but also to be successful in this world, a person must preserve himself as a person, his sense of subjectivity. When determining the "strategy of individual survival," the author proceeds from the thesis known in psychology of activity: "The world begins with you, with your attitude to the world, other people and to yourself." The book provides psychological recommendations that allow you to become more successful in communicating with other people. The book can be useful to practical psychologists, teachers of schools, students studying psychology, as well as all those who are interested in practical psychology and social technologies.