Why am I alone? Why don't those men I like like me? How do you feel with a partner like you're behind a stone wall? How do you stop dragging negative experiences into new relationships? The answers to these questions are in your hands. Sasha Rule, a gender psychologist and author of successful courses on female and male sexuality and creating happy relationships, explains: in order to create the relationship that you want, you need to be in harmony with yourself. And to answer yourself the question: what are you really looking for in a relationship?