Why are we wrong even in those we have known for a very long time? Can a person be lonely in the family? Why are lovers blind? The famous Bulgarian publicist Lidia Simeonova gives answers to these and many other questions that concern us in her book. The main task that the author sets himself is to force the reader to look at himself from the outside, to "try on" his actions to a particular everyday situation. Written in living language, dynamic in thought, full of curious observations, the book leads a serious and frank conversation about the difficult art of being a person among people