All our lives we learn what is important for us or society, primarily knowledge. Kindergarten, school, institute. We cram so much, master, write, repeat, pass exams. But it seems that at the same time we miss the most important thing - we do not learn life itself, how to build relationships, raise children. It seems to us that that limited set of models obtained in the family or society is quite sufficient and it goes without saying that we are all qualified in this. Until we face our own difficulties, ask questions in these areas and get "everything like everyone else," we do not have the thought of learning or cognition. No one will let us drive a car without passing traffic rules, and strict liability in the form of a fine or deprivation of rights awaits us for their violations. And if we ruin our lives and the lives of our loved ones or the psyche of our own child in the process of upbringing, no one will ask us for it. Isn't it a very strange story?